弄 means “toy with, trifle with”

もてあそぶ · moteasobu

Also: play with, tamper

Kun'yomi (Japanese reading)
いじくる, ろうする, いじる, ひねくる, たわむれる
On'yomi (Chinese reading)
ロウ, ル

JLPT N1 · Taught in secondary school · 7 strokes

The story

Two hands (廾) turning a piece of jade (王, the 玉 radical) over and over: playing with something. 弄ぶ is to toy with, feelings included, and to be 翻弄される is to be tossed about, like a ship in a storm or a life ruled by fate.

Used in 弄ぶ (moteasobu, to toy with), 翻弄 (honrou, tossing about/making a plaything of), and 愚弄 (gurou, mockery)

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